Alot of people seem to value undestanding... But after being dxd, i've learned that that's just not always possible, especially if 1 partner has an M.I (or 2) and the other is a 'normal'... What i value right now, right up there with honesty and respect, is ACCEPTANCE... That for me is a key ingredient. Can i accept that may bf and possible husband will be there for me,but never truelly understand me? Can he accept that he can't fix me, and that he may never understand what i deal with day to day? Acceptance is a key ingredient for me...