Dear Open Eyes,
In reading your post, it seems to me that your sister still is bullying you. In my own family there are still secrets of the past that have ruined family relationships. I cannot repair everyone in my family, but I am finally dealing with my past and being honest with myself and my children. They know that mom is treated for depression. My oldest daughter, 16, does not yet know entirely of my childhood, but she does know of the alcoholism and some of the abuse. I will let her know more as she matures. Fortunately, she is a strong young woman, and she doesn't carry my ghosts with her. When the time comes, I will also be honest with my younger children, boys.

I have finally learned that honesty, not secrets, keep relationships healthy.

Bluemountains