well thank you so much for your responses.

apparently she made a 50 payment today. and i spoke with my boyfriend. i had to cut things off, i cant do this, have someone else interfering in our relationship. in my eyes i see he is letting his ex get away with it, and coming between us. she has caused many problems between us before, including accusing me of cheating on him, which i NEVER did. im just so upset.

all he keeps saying is, 'if i cancel the phone she will get mad and not pay', 'if i report the phone lost or stolen, she will get mad and not pay', 'if you call and talk to her, she will get mad and not pay', 'if i ask her for more money, she will get mad and not pay'.

she is very immature obviously, im sure everyone can see, but honestly, how much more can i deal with watching our money and my boyfriend protect her and her mistakes?? i just cant. i cant let someone get in between me and my bf, and i wont. i had to end it.