i just sent him a very casual email about 40 minutes ago. just asking how his week was so far and told him a little about mine. now i play the waiting game. im sorry that your husband is so distant dark heart. he sounds a little like my brother. my brother also spends about 12 hours a day playing video games with his ''online friends''. i don't think it has anything to do with you, i think it's just a personal problem your husband has. have you talked too him about it?
i don't know why it's so hard for people to be there for another person. it probably has something to do with fear. maybe there afraid if they hang out around a depressed person they can catch it? i don't know