Thanks for your reply. Your message confirms that what I am doing is the right thing. During these difficult times I have shown my kids love and continued giving them complete attention. I have never said a word against their mother, above all she is their mother. Moreover we still say the same prayers before we go to bed and at church as befor 'God bless mummy, daddy ... '

Their mother on the other hand was filling their mind with things against me. Once again I had taken the right decision by not leaving home when she filed for divorce. The kids would have believed her and probably would already be scarred. They do not believe her anymore and instead they do what I have been doing, ignore her.

I do hope the court will give me custody. It is only this way the kids will be denied of nothing. My fear is that if she gets custody she will take the kids away 100's of miles as she had already planned. Hopefully, the court may see the genuinity in this case and if not giving me custody they order my wife a programme in which the kids are garuanteed contact with me.

During these days I will make sure I give my two beautiful daughters the love, care, attention and affection they deserve to become two strong, secure and educated ladies. above all it must be painful for their mother to be the way she is.