Since this all started from a comment that was made to you and you were fine before - I think this is obsessive thinking. Its not like you're fighting natural feelings of being gay. You're all worried you might be gay and aren't experiencing any pleasurable attraction. If you have a Pdoc you need to tell him/her you're having a hard time. Try to stop over thinking and just continue with your life. Its also easier to stick with your original threads since they're the same topic.