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Originally Posted by gypsyprincess
I met a man at work who is 15 years older than me. We were immediately drawn to each other. I'm still in my 20s and he's in his late 30s. He has two kids from a past failed partnership. It ended because she cheated on him and left him for his best friend. So i know he's not single because of any commitment issues. We are very compatible. I really think I'm in love with him.
As a woman in my 20's, is it wise to pursue a man who has already experienced most of the things I still want to experience, like having children? (the verdict is still out on whether he would have more children or not). But I mean should i forget him and find a young man closer to my age who could experience life with me for the first time  ? |
You're in your early 20s. It sounds to me like your older man friend
has had a commitment issue if he never married his baby mama. While I don't know your man friend, I have to say a lot of men will claim that their ex-girlfriends cheated on them, when it might be closer to the truth to say they never entered into an exclusive relationship with the woman and were angered and shocked when she moved on to another man. If he never married this woman, maybe she didn't think it was cheating. I think you should find a young man close to your own age and take the next relationship slowly.