I know that whoever this girl is she and him have not seen eachother in 5 years ay least and i know that she has a young(2 or 3 yrs.old) daughter. But the newest news on this front is that he asked where she lived (not an address) just where technically she lives in NH. I don't know what I will do if I lose him he is my whole world! I think if he meets with her for lunch or coffee just to even talk and he hides it from me that i am going to have to leave him because I will not allow my self to live this kind of life, always wondering and having knots in my stomach. why does he have to do this? Why are guys so hurtful to the ones who love them the most