*nods* ... If your able to find a group of people who dont always cause a problem for you, and point you out as the problem, that would be ideal... But I'm lost in that as well. Because most everyone I come in contact with in the real life, is in their own world, and expect nothing but what pleases them, and what they want... and if you don't continue that on, then theres something wrong with you (or so they say). I've noticed a lot of what is going on in relationships, is its either one persons fault or the own selfs fault. Since most don't want to see fault in their self, they place it onto other people and blame the other person. But in reality, it's both parties. (in my opinon and experience)