i used to go on a teen help site for awhile back, and i met alot of
kids on there that some of my best friends, one in particular is my
friend *kary*. she is bullimic, and we bonded mainly on the fact that
im anorexic. i'm not seroiusly underweight, im just about normal. but
*kary* is a different story, shes extremely underweight, and she
doesnt look as bad as she is. now, i cant really do anything about it,
becuz whenever i try to talk to her about it she gets defensive. i dont think i can post numbers, but her BMI is way low,
like if she went to the doctors they would immediatly send her to a
hospitol .. and i dont want her to have to go to a hospitol, but i
think its the only way.. am i a bad friend for doing this? i know her
home phone number, but, i dont know her parents, like at all. i kno
tht they dont speak english.. at all, they speak polish. and i dont
think its my place, and even if she got better i dont think she would
forgive me. and i really need her, i know tht she has got to WANT to
stop.. idk .. am i a horrible friend for not being there to support her?