This might be a silly question but why can't men & women just compleatly & truely love the person they are with? Why does it always have to involve heartache & pain why can't we all just be true to our partner? and how come some people are completly capable of being true to one person and others can't help but to always hurt the ones they love? Is this even a question that can be answered? Will I ever get the one answer that I am looking for? Geez, I must sound so crazy to all of you reading this but I keep asking these questions to myself I just thought it might help my heart to hear things from someone other than myself.