Hello, clouds_and_sun. You had no choice in how you got here. You do have a choice about how you are going to react to being here. Each of us is unique. Buying into the herd mentality may seem safe and inconspicuous but it is not fulfilling.

You get to decide your purpose. Your purpose hopefully will provide meaning. Meaning often means making a difference in the lives of others. Instead of belaboring the negatives, focus on the positives of your uniqueness to make the world a better place.