hello everyone,
i have been talking to this guy for about 6 months now. he told me that he likes me but i told him that i like him just as a friend and would like to continue being friends. he said it was okay with him....but flirted every now and then. then he started becoming distant. at first i didnt notice it much because i'd thought may be he's busy with his new job and thats why he's talking less...but after few days i asked him whats wrong. he said nothing's wrong and he's just busy in office. i said ok.

things didnt improve. then i confronted him again...and this time he said to me that he's been trying to keep some distance because he doesnt want to get hurt. i said to him that he's dear to me and i can understand that he doesnt want to get hurt...but he should give me some time and we both should let chips fall where they may. he sad ok. but things didnt really improve.

since then he's been telling me that he'll give me more time from his busy schedule but he doesnt. and when i complain,he says that i should understand that he is busy and has got work to do. but when he texts me and if im only a little bit late in replying,he starts complaining that its okay if u dont want to talk. blah blah.

another important thing. i KNOW that i get emotionally dependent and clingy. a lot. and i've tried (spoken so) to break things off between us A LOT of times....but each time i got back to him soon after i said so. and he knows that i wouldnt really want to break it off. in my personal view i can be a very annoying person when relationships are concerned i dont do it on purpose though.may be its my bipolar! (its not diagnosed yet but judging from my frequent mood swings i think it has to be bipolar!).
he says he still likes me and would like to continue friendship with me and that i shouldnt say repeatedly that im leaving. but his actions speak otherwise!! like today....i texted him multiple times in the day time. he didnt reply. i called him and he didnt pick up. i was pissed off. later he called me once and i didnt pick up beacause i was hurt. he didnt even bother to gimme any explanation.

he texted later on and when it took me few minutes to reply back...he started complaining. i was like 'what the hell is this!!!!'

im really disturbed because of this. my gut tells me to leave this guy immediately and to never contact him again! but my heart wants attention from him what should i do?????? is it time to let go??????????