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Old Nov 28, 2011, 03:49 PM
Kattic Kattic is offline
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Originally Posted by hankster View Post
Well then, according to the very short book, How To Serve Man (it's not a cookbook) by the hankster, if he's EATING okay, how's the other thing? You don't have to answer that! But would he go on a couples' retreat, or go for a couples' massage at a day spa, if you threaten him with couples therapy as the alternative? Or what HE find fun that you could do with him that you wouldn't ordinarily do?
You don't think all this change w/ his behavior could stem from ED?

He is on testosterone and we have tried various pills (you know the ones! lol) and nada.

However, that development (ED) has only been in the last 3 years (and is fairly common, we are told, w/ the meds he is taking). The personality issues were showing up prior to that, tho.

I guess I have trouble grasping that not having sex could affect anyone's personality this way. But then, I am not a man.