Geez! All these systems are supposed to help us, but you're not the first one I've heard of being jerked around, having stuff lost, and experiencing other problems. Years ago, when my aunt was alive, was told by Social Security that they were going to cut her daughter off (I think because she could supposedly work). Her daughter was basically like an infant (although she was an adult, or nearly one), couldn't walk or talk, severely mentally retarded and had cerebral palsy. And she wore diapers. My aunt got that settled, but it's just ridiculous what people have to go through!

And yeah, money makes all the difference. If you're rich, you get taken care of. If you're not, you get screwed.

I'm really sorry this is happening to you. Maybe you need to go in to work and just have a breakdown in front of them. Some people need to be smacked in the head before they "get it." Of course, then they'll talk about you, and act like it's your fault, like you can control it.

Maybe you should write your Congressperson and ask them to do something about the system. Good luck to you.