My opinion on dating is that you date for several weeks or whatever time it takes for you to mutually decide you will be exclusive. After that, you are no longer dating but are in a committed, monogamous relationship. I am always appalled by women who try to say their man won't commit and only wants to date after several years of being together. What about that is not a commitment? I think it is wrong for women to try to guilt and emasculate their man into marrying them. The quickest way to get your man to marry you is to act like it doesn't matter. Act like you are happy to be with him and won't put an agenda ahead of being with him. Ever see the movie "He's Just Not That Into You"? Ben Afleck's character was being berated and harrassed by Jennifer Aniston's character to get married. She finally realized what great a guy she had and decided to drop her immature tactics. Guess what? Very soon after that she had a ring on her finger. There is a lesson all women can learn in that. Now it is fine to let your man know your desires and dreams for the future. But that is a far cry from crying and *****ing at him every time a Jared commercial comes on or you see a couple getting married on TV. This kind of behavior is indicative of a princess who never had to wait for anything in life. No wonder a man is hesitant to marry a woman like this.