Actually, Caroline, and someone correct me if I'm wrong, isn't it a good thing that Shula has more to say? it would seem to me that expression has been part of the problem for a lot of alters, they weren't allowed or didn't feel allowed to express themselves "back then" and being able to talk about it now, I think, is a good thing, albeit difficult and unnerving and scary for us.

Hang in there, hun, you're doing good things to help yourself and are very brave to do so

Songbird