Thanks for replying. I saw how many people viewed but didnt post and i started getting that feeling I had said something too much.

I didn't know how why that memory is so vivid. I just remember sitting on my bed watching my dad install the lock. He was grumpy. It was saturday. Soon after, my mom came in to instruct me on locking my door. its a non-eventful memory, but inside i think somehow. it was big.