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Old Nov 29, 2011, 05:20 AM
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Originally Posted by hoping4best View Post
he says he still likes me and would like to continue friendship with me and that i shouldnt say repeatedly that im leaving. but his actions speak otherwise!! like today....i texted him multiple times in the day time. he didnt reply. i called him and he didnt pick up. i was pissed off. later he called me once and i didnt pick up beacause i was hurt. he didnt even bother to gimme any explanation.
Okay, if you want to have any sort of relationship, even just friendship, you have to quit playing games. Call or text him once. Other people aren't there to cater to us and our moods and friends don't have to explain that they are busy or don't want to talk right now, etc. You are not treating him with respect, texting him over and over and calling him and then not answering when he does call you.
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