Skycastle, what's up? (and don't give me that lame, miscellaneous "fine" stuff; save that for your T :-)

I don't know what you found on your T's Facebook page but I would tell her you found her page and were distressed about what you read and see if the two of you cannot figure out why. Her page has nothing to do with you so your distress is coming from your own head too and it is important that you work with that, a very good opportunity to do so!

The phone thing could have been anything, as many people have pointed out. I know my phone doesn't always work right, will ring immediately after I've hung up with someone and no one will be there that second time (I don't have caller ID so don't know who it "should" have been but it has happened enough times immediately after a call that I think there's a phone glitch with the previous call).

The only way you can feel better is to talk to your T about some of this stuff.