I don't think it is age crisis.and it is not your fault that you don't get much attention.statistic says that guys very very often prefer being in internet than communicate alive in these days of technology.however gir is ideal she could have this problem.it doesn't depend on your character or individuality.I have very powerful method.practise if you find it wright.1.you are very right that behave yourself fake happy in the work.there always will be cruel people who would be glad to see you depressed.you can be free and sincere in PC.and will get support.2I know how much effort anyone need to rise her self esteem.in spite of that you have high self esteem or not behave yourself a bit arrogant.O this really works.be like that at home and work.so number 2 fake high self esteem.3.GOLD RULE. never show anyone(except PC.It is our spiritual home when we get support) that you need people. someone to talk to.show that it is not important for you.That's a pity that I write this because I would like people to appriciate each other normally.but if the world contains also bad people you need to be good for good people and bad for cruel or arrogant people.that they understand they are not better than you.a human= a human.but anyone don't understand this.so remember Golden rule.3. don't show your husband that you are anxious about being him in int. more tham with him.be attentive to him a s much as he is.when he enter to internet you do the same way.if you don't have friends in internet write me.try this minimum a month.when he understand that you need him as much as he need you he will be yours completely.behave yourself like you also prefer spending time in internet than with him.or try something you like instaed of int.This really works.good luck to you.