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Old Nov 29, 2011, 10:27 AM
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Originally Posted by Sheba976 View Post
I know they are your parents, but you don't need the extra stress from them. I wouldn't talk to them or tell them anything that is going on with your disorder. Why are they so upset by your diagnosis and how it affects them or how others view them? I can't say that I understand because my parents are very supportive and are happy that I finally found treatment. They have seen my struggles as a teenager and young adult. My dad says he feels guilty that he didn't force me when I was younger to go for treatment. I have always found ways to hide it from them. If it wasn't for my boyfriend, I probably never would have gotten help. He is a Physician Assistant and his family is all in healthcare so they have been very understanding and helpful. I had a complete mixed episode when we were visiting his dad and stepmother. His step-mom is an MD so she completely talked me down, hugged me while I cried and even offered to stay with me until I fell asleep. I am very lucky!

My bf at first was concerned that he could even deal with me and the disorder but he has come to therapy with me a few times and it has been very helpful. I'm glad your husband is supportive.

Could you ever get your Mom to go to a therapy session with you? Is your parents support and acceptance something that you really need?
You are...No, I take that back, you aren't lucky, you're blessed...And don't take it for granted...I read far too many posts on here where people get 0 support from family, friends & sig others...
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