Thank you Rhapsody! I think this is a good thread because so many of us who have been married have never even thought of this being something that could happen. I was absolutely floored when I was told this was rape.
To anyone who has been through this just know even though you are in a relationship and are in love with someone it can happen and no one should ever tolerate someone doing this too you. You own your own body, and you alone. If you need to put "no tresspassing" signs on your property you have every right and NO ONE should EVER violate it!
HUGS
Cher