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Old Nov 29, 2011, 05:17 PM
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You are talking about it.

You are innocent.

What happened to you was s*x*al abuse.

What happened to you was bad, not you.

I am glad you are sharing with us and breaking that silence.

Whether his **** was limp or not, he was still forcing it on you.

Oral and **** is intercourse because he is still engaging in s*x*al acts with you with his organ.

So sorry this happened and so sorry you feel so embarrassed.

Why do us survivors feel we have to feel this way when the shame and guilt belong to the abusers?!

Billi
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Thanks for this!
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