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Originally Posted by TerryL
Hi Downfall--I'm glad you laughed at my post. I thought about it today and thought you might take it as me minimizing your pain, and that certainly would not have been my intention. I understand how hard it is for you. It is hurtful at any age to be left out. I hope that your friends were not mean about it. Not sure if this will help you but for myself, I have finally learned that I cannot make someone feel something that they don't feel, whether it be regarding relationships with friends or with mates. I wish I had learned that sooner. I guess they don't call it growing pains for nothing...
As for you being shy, I used to very shy myself. but here and there I would click with someone one on one and that was how I made some friends. I do wish I had more friends myself too though. But I will keep trying and I hope that you will too. So hang in there and take good care of yourself.  |
Yeah it is difficult but I guess it's just another part of life :/
When I was younger I used to be able to make a few friends even though I was so quiet but now it seems so much harder unfortunately.. Thank you very much
