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Originally Posted by CantExplain
You express youself so clearly! It's like I was in your head the whole time.
You're not a spoiled brat. You're suffering. It's OK to ask for help.
T knows how difficult it is for you to speak. And you did speak. I'm sure she treasures every word!
You thread title is "I couldn't do it". But you did! You went (though you didn't really want to) and you had a fairly normal session. Yes really. I know you hurt, but you said what you had to say. You want things to be different, you don't want to say this stuff. But by saying this stuff you will be healed.
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most of what i said here was in my head.i think i onlt said to her i had a bad week and i feel like a miserable spoiled brat.and you dont know me.i was able to say these few things.i just get so disapointed.
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Originally Posted by Sannah
granite it seems you were letting your pain out. This is what you need to do and yes, it isn't pleasant.  |
do you realy think so i hurt so much and feel like a total failure in T.i hope next week will be better
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Originally Posted by laceylu
been there done that. I hate the memory and flashback stuff. T seems to know how to present that stuff in new ways that hurt. peace be with you. you can do it.i wish all this yucky stuff would not happen to people, but i am glad you have a T to help you.
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i hate those words when she uses them it just doesnt seem to be me at all.i dont want it to be i dont know how to deal with it all
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Originally Posted by likewater
(((Granite))) you just described my week. :-). You arent alone. You did just fine.
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i'm so sorry you are also having such a bad week.i am trying to make mine a bit better i did go to work today and it was ok.i hope your week turns around
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Originally Posted by Kacey2
Oh Granite.
You had such a rough go of life to start off with. My heart hurts for you. Of course this is nothing but scary and confusing because this is something that you don't know and have never had!
This is so silly and please don't take offense but I had an image when I read your post. I imagined you like a goose that is being fed a the rivers edge. The goose comes for the food and then immediately darts away for safety. The good news is the goose always comes back for another piece of the bread and after enough time it doesn't run away after every bite. Maybe you will be like that goose given enough
"therapy love and patience" bread!
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thanks for understanding.i have never dealt with a T like this i dont understand her or how to do this at all .none of it feels right or comfortable.i love your image of the goose
