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Old Nov 30, 2011, 10:33 AM
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Originally Posted by emptybee15 View Post
I had to leave my cheating ex the day I found out. I'm insecure from the start, so, if you do something THAT horrible, my trust is completely gone and I'll no longer believe anything you say from that day forward.

Once a cheater, always a cheater usally deems true. So, stop making yourself insane trying to wonder and figure things out...if he can't make you feel secure after he messed it up, leave him alone.

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She said he hasn't cheated....I don't believe that once a cheater always a cheater....People can change....However, if someone told me that they have cheated in the past, I would look at them side ways...Because it is true that history repeats itself...I wouldn't automatically think that they would cheat on me, but I wouldn't be a fool...I wouldn't think that I'm exempt from being cheated on, but I would try to give the person the benefit of the doubt....While being cautious while dealing with them....I have to judge your actions while you are with me....

Edit: And I agree....If I find out you have cheated, the relationship is done...Because I will never be able to trust you...I already have some insecurity issues....
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