well, its not your fault for wanting to protect your son from the horrors you faced. what you need to realize is that this child is nothing more than ... well, a child. i know it scares you more than anything, but you need to stand up for yourself, by calling this child out, becuz if you dont stand up to this child .. u will find more and more people that remind you of him, i believe that you can stand up to him. good luck