from time to time i have flashbacks of my abuse. my flashbacks are horrible, its like relicing the experience, except its worse becuase you know exactly whats going to happen, the exact moment of the worse pain, and the worst part of these is that you want to reach out and save yourself, but you cant. the problem is that one of my good friends (whos a guy) sounds exactly like my abuser, and hes one of the nicest guys ever, but every time i talk to him in real life (not on instant messanger) i get mini flashbacks... im not sure how to tell him this, but worse yet last night we were talking adn he starts making sexaul remarks. i lost it completely, froze completely in horror, i cudnt hangup .. i cudnt say anything.. all i cud do was text message my friend telling her 'help me' and she called. i switched to her call and she tried to help me thru it. well, it lasted 2 hours .. one of my longest to date, and now the guy tht triggered it has been calling me nonstop .. i dont kno how to respond to him