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Old Nov 30, 2011, 02:43 PM
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Originally Posted by Sannah View Post
Therapy is about you and for you Peaches. It is for you to get comfortable with yourself. If she got more involved therapy would be about her too. I sort of see the therapist as a mirror.

Hi Sannah,

I understand part of what you said. The t acting as a mirror -- helping us to understand ourselves -- i can understand that and it makes sense. But i disagree that therapy isn't about her at all. Isn't it about learning how to have healthy relationships? How am i going to learn that if t is not part of the equation?
Thanks for this!
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