Just so you know where I'm coming from, I had a T for many, many years. I thought she was a perfect fit until she dumped me. I spiraled for about 5 years after that until I found what I consider to be the 'really perfect for me' T. Don't get me wrong, the first T helped, but only so far. I went through a serious of other T's after that, but none of them felt right so I kept looking.
I can only see the Pro's now, but I'm hopefully on the other side now. Not that therapy is a breeze, but I finally able to deal with the 'hard stuff'.
Have you discussed this with your current T? It helped me, because I was afraid I was just jumping from therapist-to-therapist, unwilling to commit, but talking it through with former T's I can see that just wasn't the case for me.
Good luck, go with your instincts, and do what's best for you.
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