Hello Pldowney51,
I can completely relate to all that you are saying. The only difference is that I am a female, so in my younger years I also experienced infertility issues, also associated with the thyroid but not explored as a cause at the time.
I, too, will treat my depression along with the many other diseases for the rest of my life-currently 6 meds, 3 supplements, and a breathing machine.
When the meds aren't controlling the depression, I find myself in a sad, angry place over the genetic cards I have been dealt. Right now, I am in fighting mode and trying to get my weight back in control. I agree that the thyroid should be FULLY checked when experiencing depression along with other related problems. I just had my 16-year old daughter's levels checked because she is experiencing the same cycle problems that I have experienced over the years. Her numbers came back normal, but so did mine the first couple of times I was checked. I will continue to pursue this because most of the women in my family are treated for hypothyroidism. Also, my brother is now experiencing problems and they have just found an extra gland next to his thyroid gland. I'm not sure what the outcome will be, but he is undergoing tests.
If you ever get down and need someone to talk to, please send a message!

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