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Originally Posted by SoupDragon
I am constantly worried that my T will dump me -
this week we talked about some images that I have in my head at times and T let me talk for a while and then asked how I felt talking about it and I said I felt nothing - T then said we should come away from it and focus on something else -
T said maybe the concern wasn't about me but about his stuff.
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I wonder if he wanted to shift to another topic because you weren't connecting with that topic emotionally??
I don't understand his statement about his stuff?
Can you ask him about this and what he meant? Telling him that you are worried that he will dump you would be good to tell him too to get that out there. Also, telling him your thoughts about your stuff being too much. It would be good to check out your assumptions.
Yeah, I was talking about letting people get close to you, not about sex.