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It all depends on the sitution of the helper, and who you are helping. Does the person you are helping have a co-dependcy mentatly or do they have a differnt outlook on life?

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is all in how you treat the person also..
Do you do it all for them, or do you just do something once in awhile?

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The Toa pours our everthing into life --
It is cornucopie that never runs dry.

It is the deep source of everything--
it is nothing and yet in everything.