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Originally Posted by Sannah
I wonder if he wanted to shift to another topic because you weren't connecting with that topic emotionally??
I don't understand his statement about his stuff?
Can you ask him about this and what he meant? Telling him that you are worried that he will dump you would be good to tell him too to get that out there. Also, telling him your thoughts about your stuff being too much. It would be good to check out your assumptions.
Yeah, I was talking about letting people get close to you, not about sex.
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Thanks Sannah - this is very helpful for me right now. On an intellectual level I knew you were talking about closeness, but somewhere in me there is a switch that equates initmacy with something else. I don't really understand what intiimacy is I guess.
I think I am scared about checking out my assumptions with T, strangely sitting here, I have images of doing that and see T either getting angry or hurt...hmmm wonder if I could be brave enough to tell him that
