.Good afternoon young lady
I have an idea that will fix all your problems.(Trying to keep it lite) Tell your boyfriend that your new friend Tom is bringing some DVD's over tonight and you and I are going to have a relaxing evening on the couch watching movies and maybe feed each other Chocolate.. OK NEXT! You simply have to be firm to him and her about your expectations. Be firm without attitude, You have right's that supercede her's for sure. Him I don't know. Was this your place before friending him? If so be kind... even more generous but set a g*****m deadline on her *****. Be nice and if he doesn't like it give both of them an eviction notice. I know you don't want trouble. This might be unavoidable if you insist on having your peace of mind back. I'll support your mind. T
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Originally Posted by emptybee15
When I met my boyfriend, he told me he had 4 kids. Fine, two are grown already so I figured I could handle that. He also casually mentioned that there are a few other kids that he "looks out for". So, after like 9 months later, he tells me that he's letting the daughter of his ex move in his house because her mother is a piece of **** that has no clue how to parent or pay her ****ing rent (my words, not his, but that is the reason) and he promised she wouldn't be around long.
It's been 5 months and the ***** is still in his house. She works, but she gives money to her mom which she ****s over, she supports her sorry *** boyfriend that doesn't work, she's not saving any money to leave and she has no plan.
I told my boyfriend that I don't appreciate this, he won't do anything and just tells me to deal with it. Since he didn't tell me about her from the beginning, I'm not accepting her as a part of my life. I want her away from me, but he won't budge. He says he's going to tell her something has to give by Jan. 1st, but I don't believe him.
So, how should I handle this? Any advice is appreciated.
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