Hi, I just wanted to share my opinion with you, I hope you don't mind. If I were you, I would get out of that relationship ASAP! This guy sounds like a real piece of work. If he was hiding the fact that he has all these kids, what else is he hiding from you? Not only that, but if he has so many kids, he sounds like he's very selfish and irresponsible, especially if he "forgot" to mention this child to you! I suspect that he doesn't treat you the way you deserve to be treated, I'm only assuming, so I apologize if I'm wrong. But please, take it from me, I've been through abusive relationships, and it's not worth it. You can find someone who will care about you and respect you. Take care, and you can write to me anytime