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Well..... Erm. I've been in a pretty long relationship... And I can honestly say I've taken many women out for tea.. Coffee.. All that good jazz... And yes, we get to know each other... However, it isn't because I'm looking to cheat or fool around... Often times its just that... Harmless socializing. When in the mood, I love to socialize and sometimes that includes females.
But I think the problem in and of itself a lot of the time with relationships is the possessiveness. Even if he does want to take it further with her... Providing you two trust one another and you're confident she won't allow him to take it further, there shouldn't be an issue. Instead of obsessing over the idea that he has romantic intentions... Just be reassured with the fact that she's not that pathetic and won't go with it... Insecurity is a real relationship-killer. If my girl went out with an entire group of guys or girls I wouldn't give a crap because I know nothing would come of it. Not only am I not wasting time being anxious over whether or not she's being 'faithful', but I think at the same time Im not creating an unhealthy, hectic enviroment. Self-fulfilling prophecy and all that jazz.
But no... Ending the relationship would be ludicrous... Honestly.
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