QUOTE]I'm sorry that your husband is thinking about how he'd rather be single but you could look at it as "well if he truly feels that way then maybe he really isn't for me" I'm sure you'll find a guy that would take care of you and want to be with you rather than being single.
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Right now, if that happens (which I'm not sure it will, I think he's just acting this way but won't go anywhere.... I hope he won't....) I don't want another guy. I have learned I am strong enough to take care of myself and my kids even through great adversity.
But healing is important when you lose someone. In a relationship you become part of each other and it is important to regain yourself, and get to know your new self.
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I am in my thirties. I also don't interact as much with other people. However, I am slowly but surely changing this.
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I used to be very closed off from people unless I already knew them. One way I have worked to change this for me is to practice. When people at the store make chit chat like, "Cold enough for ya?" Instead of mummbling and looking away I answer them. Also at my job I get a lot of practice at this, as I'm the receptionist. I feel much more confident around people. My people anxiety is not as high as it was, that's for sure.