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Dec 01, 2011, 06:01 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2009
Location: getting use to my own skin again
Posts: 1,797
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AnjO,
Re: Intergration
We send lots of stuffies for the littles and big soft blankets for the biggers. 
Those within me have been working on healing for long time.
The T's that helped us the most were the ones that accept the fact that we had to do that on our own and be able to work with each other as a unit before intergration took place natural on its own.
the first important thing is safety both within and with the T.
By allowing those within to have a say and the knowledge that they are heard it allows them to heal and grow together as one or a working team.
good luck!
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