He is a close family member. he asked me if i thought he was annoying and i said yes. then he starts harassing me about it. Shoved Me, locked me out of the house, asked me if i cared if he threw some of me things across the room-he did throw down a clay statue i worked on, and afteer all these he kept asking if he was annoying now. he then said at least he wasnt a jackass. I think it was because i didnt answer him because i couldnt muster up the strenth(it could be depression-although i havent been diagnosed) and came out like a cold *****. he then blamed my attitude on pms.