What do you all expect from your T? Do you have criteria that you measure them by? Or is it just a kind of 'if your T is good for you, then they are good' type of thing? Or do you have no choice where you are living?

Has anyone ever 'broken up with' their T? How?

I'm not too convinced about mine, haven't been since the first session really and now it's 16 months later.

She's very nice and many sessions have been good. But... she is rather unresponsive and I feel like I am paying a lot of money to talk to myself. It's not really what I want. I'd rather have someone who challenges me and who 'gets it'.

But I don't know if I am expecting too much, or if I am just not 'doing it right' (I'm always accused of intellectualising too much and not 'feeling' enough). I've never been especially happy with a T. I feel too much as though I can see them coming, and I want not to. Hope it makes sense.

So - just wondering - what do you guys look out for (if you have any choice)?

Thanks
BB