Everyone- I use to think I would never find some one-- I stopped looking, then pop- the co-worker I had been working with for 2 years - we were so similar in ways, thoughts, and morals- we talked more- he made me so happy and laugh so much a lot-and still does.

There are some days I wish that when I was 15 I met someone (it is the time i think that gets me- i feel i don't have enough time), but ya know i am happy that I met some one at 22.. I tend to like to believe that since I was older, I knew myself a little more (though I am still lost at times) and that we will have a longer relationship.. that we are adults- even if we act like kids some times, the years do add to sticking and understanding and communication and less turmoil.

I am 25 right now- I like OurLadyTears have several friends with kids, are married (some happy and some that I am amazed they still "work it out" or I think my friend could do so much better and don't understand why they take the abuse) and even a few that are already divorced.... I differ though (of course with the obvious that i just wrote above), I don't want the kids for fears, I do want a companion though- which I have found-- though always have doubts of where it is going, him leaving and so forth---

Also, you would think that being with someone I would be more in the festive spirit but I am not- I still feel lost and alone at times, even at times "on my own" stuff still-- IDK if that will pass.

I wish you all well and hope you all good luck and I love what you put OurLadyTears:

"Lonely people must unite for the holidays! "

that just makes me smile so much-- Ya know you may not have a b/g friend or a spouse but you surely could always have friends- even if it is just for a day or a time of the year