You're right on target Bear, There's a very fine line between helping someone and being an enabler. It's surprising how many of us (no offense meant to anyone here) don'y know where that line is. I know that I don't. I'm 100% a fixer, I want to fix whatever problem you have. That's not healthy for you, and not healthy for me.

Another thought provoking question. I seriously think that John should consider creating a Fuzzybear's question of the week forum.

Love you Bear,
Greg

"Children seldom misquote you. In fact, they usually repeat word for word what you shouldn't have said."