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I'm gonna give it to you real blunt and raw....And what you decide to do from here on out as far as you two's relationship is up to you...
You would be an absolute FOOL to take this guy back...Point.Blank.Period. Girl, you are waaaaay better than me...I woulda handa dude's balls to him...One thing I cannot stand, is a liar and a cheater....Dude is a player....Plain and simple...He is stringing the both of you along and you're both going along with it....If you ask me, he doesn't sound like much of a prize....
First thing you did wrong, you ignored all the red flags because you wanted to be with him so bad....Bad move...Two, you are still talking to this guy AFTER what you found out? Oh, ok...Sooooooo, you're gonna lie to me the whole relationship, have me making plans on moving in with you, and all the while, you are still talking to your ex? Really? And you already know that 9 times outta ten, they been sleeping together...
I cannot understand this for the life of me....Why women are so confused about what it is that they want to do after dude done cheated...And most importantly, disrespected you...And not just cheated once, BUT MULTIPLE TIMES...Your whole relationship was built on a lie...He was doggin you OUT to his ex...I get it...You care about him. But you must care about him more than you do yourself...If ya'll was married or have kids, I could see how it would be harder to walk away...But after a year?
Like I said, do what you want...But you are doing nothing but asking for trouble and to be sh*tted on by him...Once again...You're thinking about giving this dude another chance? I wouldn't even entertain him with answering his calls...He wants you because he think he can do it again...I woulda ripped dudes balls off and handed it to him...That was foul what he did....
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