I was seeing my T for 14 months and the sessions were good but I felt I wasn't moving along the way I wanted to. I ended up going to a session and telling her exactly that and that I needed to be pushed a little bit into dealing with this deep stuff. She suprised me by saying "I thought you would never ask" in the last 2 months the sessions have gotten way better and more productive.
Advocate for yourself and hopefully they will adapt. If not, time to move on