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Originally Posted by emptybee15
I told my boyfriend that I don't appreciate this, he won't do anything and just tells me to deal with it. Since he didn't tell me about her from the beginning, I'm not accepting her as a part of my life. I want her away from me, but he won't budge. He says he's going to tell her something has to give by Jan. 1st, but I don't believe him.
So, how should I handle this? Any advice is appreciated.
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You can only control your own behavior. You made your statement ("I don't like it/it's an imposition on me") and you have to back it up with your action (move out, shoot her
etc.). I would reiterate to your boyfriend
your choice of action that will take place Sunday, January 8 (give her a week to move out from having been told to leave) if she is not out of there; not just told, "something has to give", but out. And I would start looking for a place for myself; it's the classic, "her or me". If it is his place, he can have whoever he wants there but you don't have to be there if you don't like the company he keeps!