Agreed. Been there. I didnt realize it when I was 14. Thought I was more mature, etc. But any 19 year old that puts the moves on a 14 year old has something wrong with them. No exceptions...your instincts are right....is there really a need to deal with this guy? Think about it. He could go to jail for making advances on you. Who in their right mind, that could get someone their own age, would do something like that??? I hung out with guys that were older than me when I was your age and now that Im almost 40 and I run into these guys they are all big losers..Sorry, I dont mean to be on a soap box....but I went through soo much when I was a teenager. If I can spare anyone else the agony I have to at least try...Hugs..