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Old Dec 02, 2011, 07:39 PM
feelingsad7 feelingsad7 is offline
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So I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. For the first few months, the sex was great. Multiple times a day, I felt beautiful, we had fun, it was awesome. The sex started to get less around month 5 which I considered to be somewhat normal. The "honeymoon stage" was done and school started and he was working 3 jobs. But for the last few months, the sex has gone down to 1-3 times a month. This does not make me happy. I question my boyfriend about it and he says he doesn't know why but he just does not have the desire for sex. He is 26! I feel like he should be in his prime! He is not cheating on me, I know this. He says he loves me and thinks I'm attractive but just does not feel the urge to make love. Recently, he shared with me that he thinks that it is because he sees me as the "mother of his children" that he feels like he can't do nasty stuff with me. What the eff?? I love this guy so much but I really want a healthy sex life. He says he wants to fix his problem but how the heck do you fix this. I try to tell him to just get over it and that I, the potential mother of his children, wants some good loving. I don't know what to do. It makes me so sad. HELP!