Also, its really common for guys to lay guilt on you so that you talk to them, fool around with them etc,..its the oldest trick in the book... He's an ADULT....Encourage him to seek help.. No adult should rely on a 14 year old for stuff like that..REALLY, I have been there...you have to put yourself first...Its not being selfish. Its doing the right thing...You seem really mature for your age. I wouldnt have guessed you were 14 at first. But honestly. 14 is 14 no matter how you look at it. Just like Im 39. I can act younger all I want but its not going to make me younger. You have enough on your plate. Please take care of yourself . Youre so sweet. You deserve to take care of yourself..Dont put your mental health on the line for this guy who is old enought to know better....Im not talking down to you. Im speaking from experience...